A funny thing happened on the way from an orgy

[JayneBond]

Sometimes, when the moon is in the 5th house of Scorpio, I think everyone has a gay sexperience. I have a friend I used to go to ritualistic sex parties with and I hadn't seen her in ages. She invited me recently to a BDSM party and I thought some hot sex with some witches might be the kind of thing that brought me out of the funk I was in. Without going into too much details my friend, who has been a long time lesbian has been "allowing men" into her life for sexcetera and I actually met her partner. I was like flabbergasted as I don't really ever think about having heterosexual sex and can't really see myself all of a sudden wanting this. So I said to her, "well I guess then that you are really bisexual afterall". To which she shockingly disagreed. She believes that she is still lesbian because she has no penetrative sex with him, she simply allows him to go down on her. Mostly because she doesn't want her "followers" to know after 20 years of preaching about being a militant fem nazi lesbian that she has been entertaining men. Previously she was also very down on me for having relationships in college with men, to which I always said, "who cares", I'm a lesbian now and she always corrected me and said I was bisexual because I had allowed men to have penetrative sex with me. Methinks she doth protest too much.

I mean WTF?

I really don't understand why everyone gets their panties in a bunch over labels. I think that a mouth is a mouth, whether it is attached to a man or a woman, and besides the whole key and lock thing that having sex between heterosexual and homosexuals is really the same thing at an energetic level. You are simply sharing your bioelectric field, exciting it and then enjoying in the energetic release that cascades (hopefully) over both of you. Religion and culture has really overcomplicated this aspect of daily existence.

I think the bottom line is to remember this and not allow people to label you into not enjoying sex in whatever way you find excites you. An orgasm is an orgasm, stop worrying so much and just enjoy it!

namaste,
JB

[martbyrd]

Well said!

Some well-known activist once said; " I identify as gay anyone who says they are."
Your story shows that, no matter who or what people are, they will still not hesitate to judge anyone else.
"Summus quod summus." (We are what we are.) As long as we hurt no-one else, a hundred years, or even a week, from now, will it really matter?

Happy days,
Mart

[JayneBond]

Yesss Martyrbyrd,

Makes me think of this dream I had about sex. I dreamt I was in a room and there was a beautiful woman and myself with only a bed. The area was roundish and reminded me of a kind of space age hospital. The woman was very hot to trot naked and excited to be there. I however recognized that we were not alone, in fact there was a kind of viewing room above us where I could see all these kind of aliens that weren't like human at all. I shouted up at them and asked them what they wanted, feeling naked and vulnerable.

They put the speaker system on and said, "Tube person we want to watch you mate."

I was perplexed, "why am I a tube person?"

"Human bodies are a series of tubes of flesh, and you like to stick these tubes into each other's orifices and we find this fascinating you find this pleasureable."

I started laughing so hard I woke up. Technically the aliens are right, we are always sticking our tubes into each other's various holes...and I'm thinking that Creator doesn't really care who is putting what in whomever's holes...SHe has far more important things to do.

LOL,
JB